I received a phone our contact person (equivalent, for me, ultrasound), August 11, 2008 , to warn us that our organization has received a proposal of a little boy and healthy 20 month old (which I thought I heard in all the excitement). The call is made around 14:30, I dined at home and I was ready to return to work by 16:00. Also, she informed me she was to send me his photo by email after our conversation and his documented by Xpresspost . So once the conversation ended, I called my husband at work to tell him the good news and I sent over the Internet, the picture of our son, that I, too, sent to my work. Then, turning to my work, I had the big smile. After the questions of my colleagues, I was so pleased to announce the good news that they wanted me for a few months. When I showed them the photo, they all told me he was really cute and he looked mischievous. In terms of my spouse, he put the photo as wallpaper, which allowed for the present, too, to his colleagues. In the evening, I made my tour of phones and emails to notify them of the good news.
In terms of the full application of our child, it included a letter of Inter-Country Adoption Board addressed to Company are a family, informing them of a proposed child and the description of costs following an acceptance of the proposal. Also, like other documents, there was a Placement PROPOSAL (Proposal for the child), Social a case study deferral (historical and parental history), a Health and medical profile (health check), a photo of the child and the form ''Declaration on the health status'' . So, flipping through the folder, I found that I had misunderstood her age and that ultimately he was 22 months. My first reaction was that I found a little old, because he already had his character, he would speak his native language and he has already a long life indeed. I am doing some statistics and I noticed that young couples often had young children. Since we had 29 years and 32 years, I expected to have a child who was approaching the one year. But more weeks went by and the more I looked at his picture, the more I felt it was mine and his age does bother me more.
Finally, we should express our acceptance of twinning before the deadline (listed in the letter of our organization) by Xpresspost (signature) to our organization. He had to write a letter , signed and dated, with the child's name and date of birth. It was important that this letter contains a request blood tests for HIV and hepatitis B and the reason for our request be explained (because this child will be in contact with other children in the family ... etc..). Also, it should send the form ''Declaration on the health and ''''Commitment on progress reports of the child'' duly signed and dated. In addition, we had obtained two bank drafts for administrative costs and expenses of preparation for the trip (which must originate from the Toronto Dominion Bank) on behalf of Inter-Country Adoption Board and another bank draft or a check for U.S. charges child custody and support the project on behalf of Company are a Family. In terms of the bank draft or U.S. check to the Company are a family, they sent us a received. As a last-place, I sent them photographs of recent us, the house and members of our families would be significant for our children because they serve to prepare its adoption. These photos, I placed a small photo album of''Finding Nemo''were: a picture of us taken into our home, a picture of my spouse's parents (his grandpa and his mami), a photo outside our house, pictures of his room, a photo of the hall to dinner, photo of the office and a photo exhibition. Once the Inter Country Adoption Board received our acceptance of twinning, they sent to our organization and we handed the documents relating to adoption records, either Investment Authority (investment authority) The Deed of Commitment volountary (parental consent) and the Certificate of Live Birth (birth certificate).
Also, a few days after we received our proposal of a child, I had a scheduled appointment with my doctor . So I took the opportunity to present the File our child (credentials, circumstances of placement, information about the background of the mother and biological father, information about the child, child's functioning in everyday life, describing the environment of the child, termination of parental rights, assessment and recommendation and Medical and health profiles). She noticed he had a small birth weight, but everything was back to normal from 6 months. His sepsis, did not seem too upset given that the physical development was done properly. She noticed, too, it was developed at the mental level. Then she saw no significant problems. I enjoyed it takes its time to look at the record of our boy and I was secure that he seemed in good health.
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